Already in a fabulous marriage, but very open and lifestyle oriented and have been for some time! We like adding some extra fun, together and separately. We are very respectful and discreet. Please be local or frequent our area. Must be non smoking, DDF, play safe and available late afternoons/ evenings, weekends, and maybe occasional overnights. Prefer single or open relationship males. I realize what this site is but navigating married males that have to sneak out on a whim and aren't able to show up as planned just don't really work for what we are looking for. If you cannot get away during the times listed that work for us please keep looking for what works for you. That said, looking for occasional, but ongoing fun that includes a basic friendship in and out of the bedroom. There has to be physical attraction, some kind of connection/ chemistry and the ability to have conversation. I generally don't play without getting to know you. That may mean we meet for drinks, dinner, e.t.c more than once or even twice. The ideal guy is kind, considerate of others, outgoing, flirty, has a sense of humor, likes dates and passionate encounters involving foreplay/ making out, kissing, snuggling and hanging out. If your relationship situation makes it extremely difficult to get together it may not be the right fit. A little about me... I'm a country girl at heart. My husband, kids, family and friends are my life... they always come first and I spend every minute I can with them.